Feb 7, 2021Negative Book Reviews: An Author’s Badge of Honor“Come in and try the worst coffee one woman on Trip Advisor had in her life.” This is what a chalkboard sign outside of a cafe said, and even though it’s been years since I first saw this photo, I still think about it. There will always, always, always be…Book Review5 min read
Jan 27, 2021Writing & Blackheads: Zeroing in on Every FlawI told my dermatologist I had blackheads. I didn’t know what the deal was. Was it my medicine? My moisturizer? Where were these disgusting things coming from? After examining my face, he said, “You don’t have blackheads. You just have normal acne. Sometimes they look like blackheads, but that’s not…Editing4 min read
Jan 22, 2021People I love keep dying. But there is joy.I tell myself it started with Lauren on December 11, 2018, but the reality is: it started sooner than that. I suppose it was just her death that threw me against a wall and left me there to bleed. It started in March 2017 when my cousin Chris died of…Grief6 min read
Dec 23, 2020Finding the Good in 2020’s Hellish Moments: A Writing Exercise in PositivityMatch.com, the online dating site, recently featured the funniest commercial I’ve seen in a really long time. Satan gets a “match” with a woman named 2020. They go on a date, and it’s love at first sight. They steal toilet paper, have a picnic in an empty football stadium, and…Positivity4 min read
Nov 30, 2020Why Does It Matter if Someone Doesn’t Like What You Wrote?How do you know if your writing is good? How do you know if what you’ve created actually matters? How do you know if people will want to read your story? That’s the struggle for every writer, I think. …Confidence8 min read
Nov 8, 2020The Perfect Writing Environment Is a Figment of Your ImaginationI sit on the balcony of the twelfth story, where I can hear the waves crash onto the shore. The sun is in a good mood, shining brightly. My chair is comfortable and ergonomic, and my table is just the right height. My laptop is open, and my coffee cup…Na No Wri Mo4 min read
Nov 2, 2020If you want to see me soar, tell me I can’t do something.I was told I couldn’t write my research paper on my grandpa because I didn’t have enough sources to cite. In other words, he wasn’t a well-known figure. I was accused of plagiarism when submitting an essay for my school’s yearbook because “it was written too well” to be mine. …Motivation5 min read
Oct 4, 2020To the People Who Broke My HeartI’m sorry. I’m sorry I cried on the sofa at midnight. At the booth in my favorite restaurant. In the parked car on a bright day. In the arms of loved ones. In my bed alone. I’m sorry I shed tears for you. And you too. For the things you have said. For…Forgiveness3 min read
Published in Thoughts And Ideas·Sep 26, 2020Writers: Forget the WHY. What is your HOW?You’ve inevitably seen the “What is your why?” articles or calls to action if you’re a writer, yes? I love those! There must be a why in your life: Why did you become a writer? Why did you choose science fiction? Why did you start with this particular plot? …Na No Wri Mo5 min read
Sep 25, 2020Children’s author “walked away from rat race of traditional pub” to self-publish sloth bookIf you’ve published a book, do you remember what it felt like to hold it in your hands for the very first time? My BFF, Janey Merry, wrote a children’s picture book about a sloth who is tired of being the slowest one in school. I’m trying to help her…Self Publishing9 min read